Men & Women on Heightism in Modern Dating–Expert & Personal Stories

#JournoRequest: Hi! I’m working on a feature exploring heightism — the subtle (and not-so-subtle) discrimination men face because of their height, especially in modern dating culture. I’m looking to speak with: 1. Men who are shorter than average and have experienced challenges, bias or uncomfortable moments while dating. 2. Single women who consciously or unconsciously factor height into their dating choices. 3. Women married to or dating shorter men, to understand what influenced their decision and how height plays into long-term compatibility. 4. Relationship experts/therapists who can unpack why height remains such a powerful filter in romantic attraction, and how couples navigate this dynamic. If you’d like to share your story or insights (anonymity is absolutely fine), please DM or reply below. Your perspective could help illuminate one of the least discussed yet most persistent biases in dating today.